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Have you ever attended a seminar and said, Wow, I wish I could speak like that? Well, I've got some great news for you. You can be a public speaker. There is no such thing as a born public speaker. Public speaking is a learned skill, basically anyone can do it. You just need to follow some simple rules and practice. If you know how to talk, you can become a public speaker. Becoming really good at public speaking requires some risk. Now understand there is risk involved. You risk being rejected when you ask someone out on a date, and you risk getting into an accident every time you drive your car. If you were afraid of getting into an accident, you'd never get behind the wheel, right? It has been proven that one of our greatest fears, believe it or not, is public speaking. The key to getting up in front of an audience is believing that you have something to share with them that may make a difference in their lives - by entertaining them, warning them, encouraging them, or giving them direction or information. In order to be good at anything, you have to practice. Its easy to become discouraged if you expect to be as good as Zig Ziglar, Tom Antion Bill Brooks and Jim Cathcart right out of the shoot. But if you knew their backgrounds you will find that it took a long time before they were able to do what they do so well. The thing to remember is the only person you need to compare yourself with is yourself. You must constantly work for your personal best, so when you are preparing your speech and practicing, all you need to ask yourself is, is your second speech better than your first? Did you learn something new as you prepared for your speech? Did you learn something from the feed-back comments of others after you gave your speech? That's all you need to do. You can use what you've learned to make the next speech your best and then use the same process for each speech you give thereafter. Just take one step at a time. Find your Niche But before you do that, you need to understand, to become a successful public speaker you must be passionate about your public speaking career. You MUST, eat drink and sleep public speaking. You must be focused, determined and control any and all distractions to become successful in this field. It is an absolute must that you love what youre doing. Yes, its important you must enjoy helping people and be around people communication is a two way process. The reason I do this basically is that I enjoy being in front of people. I get fired up, excited and enjoy the interaction. Yes, ego is involved also. Its a rush! Now, back to where we were. Below are some questions to ask yourself to find your niche. Your audience will know if you really care about what youre speaking on believe me! So, find your niche. PROCESS 1 PROCESS 2 PROCESS 3 Once you have found your niche(s), perfect it/them. If youve noticed, you can have more than one. It is strongly suggested you have multiple subject matter. Personally, I have eight seminars from one hour to a two week on site venue. Dont limit your marketability with only having one or two. Versatility is the name of the game. But which ever you choose become the expert in that/those subject(s). Stay up to date with changes, technology or whatever impacts change to your subject. Constant research is the key here. Remember, people are paying for your knowledge! Tools of the Trade: To start on this subject, I will layout the common tools required to maintain your trade:
1. Get an annual check-up from a throat specialist Prevention is always better than a cure.
1. Dont strain learn proper breathing techniques and protection techniques. Prolonged straining of your voice causes the vocal chords to rub violently together causing blisters or nodules often requiring surgery and then voice therapy to correct. Remember; dont skimp on quality with your tools. Your tools are important and cost should not be a factor. You get what you pay for! Delivery As a speaker, you never want to die in front of the room, but if you take the wrong position, it may very well affect how your received. Lots of research on covert influence shows that it really does matter where one stands when we present our subject matter. To satisfy yourself that the position of your body in relationship to others is important, try this. Ask several to help you out. Place two chairs face to face, just about 3-4 feet from each other. Now, assuming you are sitting in one, slide the other over about two feet to the right, so when the other person is sitting across from you, youll be to their right, and vice versa. Now have each person sit across from you as you present a short subject. Have them appraise you on a scale from 1-10 how comfortable they are with you. After they have done so, move your chair so that they are now across from you, and on your left and repeat the process. Do this with as many people as you can, because the results are overwhelming. Youll be shocked to find that almost everyone rates you as being much more comfortable when you are on their right side. Not only that, but research also indicates that you will be seen as more attractive as well. See how this might be beneficial? So, how do you use this information in a live presentation? While there are more complex strategies, the basic use of this is not only powerful, but simple. When you first take the stage, youll want to stand near the center, just off to the right of the audience, or your left. As the presentation progresses, you will want to use both sides of the stage; the side to the right of the audience for anything you want them to associate positive feelings to, and the left side to the things you want them to link to negativity. Aint science wonderful? Nerves Your mouth is dry, heart pounding, and knees knocking. You go into panic, facing a dreaded public speaking engagement. Now understand, I have been speaking since 1973 and have given hundreds of seminars and each and every time Im nervous. Here are a few tips that may help combat those symptoms and reduce nervousness. 1. Deep breathing will help your brain work to capacity, and forcing the slower pace will quell the panic. 2. Exude confidence; Stand tall, with shoulders back and chest out. Smile. Even though you dont feel happy or confident, do it anyway. You will look confident and your body will fool your brain into thinking it is confident. It works! 3. Keep you mouth and throat hydrated. Plan to keep a drink on hand while you are speaking, though this sounds impossible. Place (room temperature) water strategically placed so you can re-hydrate during your presentation. Know when in your presentation it would be less noticed. If all else fails tell your audience that you need to hydrate. You can make it humorous. 4. Adrenalin sends the blood rushing to the fight/flight centers of your brain at the base of the skull. Place your hand on your forehead and press gently on the bony points. This will bring the blood to the parts of the brain that need it to present your speech best. 5. Know you are prepared. Obviously this depends on actually being prepared, so take every opportunity in the days leading up to the speech to prepare your material. Be familiar with the structure of the presentation, and the ideas to use. Memorize the most important parts, and the parts you might forget. 6. Know your audience, its critical! Their average age, gender, race, income levels, education, generally their demographics. Remember, the more you know your audience the more it will put you at ease. 7. Remember, you are the expert! Yes, there are people who might know more about your subject. I think this way, if there is a person that knows more about the subject being presented in the audience, then why they are not up here presenting and I seated in the audience? 7 Keys of making a Speech 1. Grammar Use correct grammar. Write out your speech in advance and read it aloud a few times. This will help you catch most of the mistakes privately. Ask a friend to listen to the speech and give you feedback or note any grammatical errors. 2. Filler Words Unnecessary words that do not help convey your point can be distracting. Avoid the use of uh, ah, um, you know, like, and I mean. In order to avoid run-on sentences, insert a one-second pause - between sentences instead of using and or so to connect two or more sentences. Before you take the stage practice saying any difficult words you plan to use. 3. Body Language By this, I am referring to unintentional cues you give such as looking at your notes, not making eye contact, slumped shoulders, hands in pockets jingling money, or slouching on the lectern. Practicing in front of a mirror will help you discover your own quirky movements. 4. Gestures These are intentional movements you use to make a point or illustrate the importance of a word. Make your gestures large enough to be seen by the person sitting in the back of the room. Step away from the lectern when using the lower part of your body; otherwise your movement will not be seen. 5. Vocal Delivery Avoid monotone and jazz up your presentation by varying your tone (emphasis or emotion), pitch (high or low voice), and rate (fast or slow). All these help keep an audience interested in what you are saying. 7. Visual Aids Not all presentations require or need visual aids. However, visual aids and handouts make a your presentation more interesting. Impromptu Speaking If you have ever given a presentation at work or at a special event you know how nerve-wracking it can be. A little nervousness is normal. It shows that you care and are excited about the opportunity youve been given to speak. Having nervousness overcome your ability to function in front of an job interview panel can be harmful.
1. What is procrastination and how it impacts ones personal life. Guest Speaker Being a guest speaker in front of the right audience can be an excellent way to attract new business. Many clubs, organizations, conventions, and trade shows seek guest speakers who can provide useful information to their audience. The opportunity to speak in front of an attentive group can certainly boost your business, whether you are a service or product provider. You have an opportunity to get free publicity to promote the event. I understand this article contains a lot of information, especially the beginner. We have addressed that you want to be a Public Speaker, finding your niche. The tools of the trade, delivery, nerves and how to control them. Keys when making a speech, impromptu speaking and of course becoming a guest speaker to hone your skills. We did not cover marketing, pricing structure, type venues, and pre-prep. This will be covered in the next addition of So you want to be a Public Speaker. I will leave you with one thought in the marketing area; You are a walking billboard! Think about it. For additional information contact us or visit www.dseconsultinginc.com/talk About AuthorMr. Dale Simmons, known as the WHY man, is a interactive motivational and "self-help" public speaker who introduced the Pebble in the Pool theory. |
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